By Brooke Winebrenner, Pepperdigital
Last week, I celebrated my 24th birthday. Now I realize this year does not mark a special milestone in life, but nonetheless it was my day. Overall, I would say it was much like many other birthdays in the past, or was it?
As the day came to an end, I was caught off guard at the realization that I had only received 2 phone calls from loved ones wishing me a Happy Birthday. The dozens of other birthday greetings were sent to me via emails, texts, tweets and Facebook wall posts and direct messages from extended family, as well as close and long lost friends. Now I don’t know about you, but 5 years ago this would have never happened. My phone would have been ringing off the hook and I would have received a handful of birthday cards.
While experts have repeatedly stated that social media is changing the way we communicate with one another, on a personal level, it really hit home. Is it that hard to pick up the phone and give someone a call? Maybe for some, but no, I don’t think that is the case. I believe this is a result of the level of comfort we have all begun to develop through social media. Communicating through these outlets has become the norm, day in and day out. So, silly me, why would I ever think that my special day would be an exception to these communication platforms?
Maybe if I would have read Mashable.com’s: Top 5 Ways Social Media is Changing Our Daily Lives before my birthday, then I wouldn’t have been caught off guard. I think it is important for everyone to take the time to reflect on how our lives are continually changing overtime in result of social media. Below, please find an excerpt from Mashable’s Top 5 Ways Social Media is Changing Our Lives:
1. Where We Get Our News
News has become more social than ever. While many people still use RSS feeds to stay up up-to-date on publications of interest and blogs, our list of sources for what is worthy of our attention has expanded substantially. Many of us have begun to look to our friends and the people we recognize on social networks like Facebook and Twitter for recommended news. This makes it easy to communicate with one another about this information.
2. How We Start and Do Business
It is easier than ever to start and launch a business today, in great part thanks to social media. Social media, including everything from blogging to posting videos on YouTube to tweeting, has brought about unlimited opportunities for both consumers and clients. Who we do business with and how we promote that business has moved increasingly online, and for small business especially, social media has proved valuable. A recent article in the New York Times concluded, “For many mom-and-pop shops with no ad budget, Twitter has become their sole means of marketing.”
3. How We Meet and Stay in Touch with People
Studies show that our time on social networks has nearly tripled in the last year, and while Facebook has always primarily centered around connecting with people and staying in touch with friends, according to a study on eMarketer, “41.6% percent of Internet users who used Twitter did so to keep in touch with their friends.” People certainly still meet others at social venues like clubs and parties, but it is easier than ever to discover people who share our interests through social media, whether that means via groups on Facebook or following people on Twitter. Of course, there is only so much communication that can happen through a social network, but via Tweetups and other in-person events, people are expanding these online interactions to face-to-face meetings.
4. What We Reveal
We now have queens acknowledging that they get nervous at times when speaking, CEOs being more honest and at times using blogs to express reservations over past decisions, and people openly sharing personal views on social issues. Of course, what we decide to reveal and when to reveal it can be delicate, and there will always likely be items we wish to keep private. However, rather than working to hide our thoughts and feelings, social media is helping to create greater personal transparency. The paradigm is now no longer to try to appear perfect, but to be more transparent with your thoughts and feelings, to reveal your humanness.
5. What We Can Influence
So-called mainstream media is no longer always the driving influencer of public opinion. On Twitter, some individuals now have a million or more followers, Facebook Pages can also have hundreds of thousands of fans, and YouTube videos can get millions of views when they go viral. Most of this content is coming from regular people, rather than big, corporate-owned media organizations. As the networks for sharing and amplifying information strengthen, the ability of each person to influence public opinion and policies increases. As a result, we feel much less like passive bystanders and much more like participants who have a voice in the events in our world.







